The under-discussed action that a good friend is called to is providing critical feedback. Yes, a friend listens, consoles, and is there in good and bad, but a real friend also says the things fans won't. The wise see the value of having people in their lives who love them enough to tell them what they need to hear not just what they want to hear. Men naturally shy away from constructive criticism and yet the wise listen and respond knowing true love sharpens and grows a person. In Jesus, we have such a friend.

"If only you will respond to my rebuke, then I will pour out my thoughts to you and I will make my words known to you." Proverbs 1:23

- Micah McElveen